Why do men struggle with commitment?

This question about the tendency in men to find it hard to commit seems to surface over and over again from women all around the world. If I could identify in a few simple strokes of the keyboard on a page of my site the answer to this question, I would be a hero to women everywhere.

Not to worry, I haven't put on my hero tights and cape just yet. I would, however, like to share my thoughts with you on this.

Here are a few comments I…

Understanding the Secret of Scarcity

by Mimi Tanner



One of the great lessons of love is known as “the scarcity factor.” Plain and simple: people tend to want what they cannot have!



When things are hard to obtain, they seem more valuable!



One example is a collector's item. The rarer something is, the more people think it is worth.



Have you seen what people will pay for a baseball card just because it's rare? …

When it comes to fighting and disagreeing with men, women frequently make a critical mistake which ends up causing them to feel hurt and lonely. When I see a female client for relationship advice, I frequently encounter this scenario. During a routine conversation, there is a disagreement between the woman and her husband/boyfriend.

It starts out in a logical manner – with two competently speaking adults simply talking about a problem or disagreement. Then at some point in the…

You're walking down the street and you see a gorgeous man smile at you. His once-over gives you a little thrill and you imagine what a first date might be like with him. But wait! You're in a committed relationship with a man that you adore. There will be no first date for you. 

What does your wandering eye mean? Are you…